How Single Males Can Get Into The Swinger Lifestyle

Swinger lifestyle practices include virtually all forms of group sex from threesomes to Greedy Girl parties and it should not be considered as being restricted to couple partner swapping. Many swinger couples enjoy all of these activities and welcome the participation of singles.

Adult dating opens the door for singles

The key to opening the door to a swinging lifestyle for single males is undoubtedly joining a good online adult dating site.  The site needs to be nationwide and have a good selection of single females and swinger couples members who are eager to hook up for swinger lifestyle activities in every area.

By joining the right site and going about things the right way. A single male can get into the swinger lifestyle and enjoy as much activity as a swinger couple.

The best way to get started is to make your first goal a threesome with a couple who are interested in having sex with an extra male. Get a few of this type of threesome experiences under your belt and then start using the contacts you will have made to get invitations to swinger parties.

Adult parties that accept single males

Whilst you are still building your relationships with swinger couples with the aim of attending regular swinger parties, you could attend some adult parties that allow unaccompanied single males and Strip show brisbane.

The main advantage of this kind of party is that you can attend alone without a partner. They also give you an opportunity to get some beginners experience of adult party activities and can prove a fertile source of swinger lifestyle contacts for you. However, there are also a few disadvantages. Firstly, this type of adult party often has an entry fee that unaccompanied males have to pay. Secondly, some venues fail to enforce quota systems of males attending, causing the events to be heavily imbalanced in their male to female ratio. You should also be wary of some so called swinger clubs who stage very seedy parties where the only females attending are actually prostitutes providing a very limited and mechanical service.

Swinger parties – the ultimate pleasure

For most successful single males, the ultimate pleasures of the swinger lifestyle comes about when he has reached the stage where regular access to group sex in all its forms, including partner swapping is possible. For this to occur he will have found a regular party partner from his online adult dating efforts.

Openness and honesty is the key for couples drawing up a “Swinger Lifestyle Contract“. Couples who have difficulty in expressing their true feelings to one another.

How to talk to each other with openness and honesty, will be unable to maintain their relationship. For long once they embark upon a swinger lifestyle. At best, these couples should postpone any thought of swinging until they have learned how to communicate openly with each other.

Do not rush through the discussion period prior to taking the first steps to swinging. It is the most important time of all for couples thinking about embarking on the swinger lifestyle. It is better to take weeks or even months to be absolutely sure, than to dive into swinging too soon. Making a decision of this magnitude during a hormone-fuelled chat during foreplay, is not the way to proceed. Always remember that you are drawing up a contract that will affect the rest of your lives.

Points to consider when drawing up a swinger lifestyle contract

• Ask what the driving forces are that draw each of you to swinging.
• Make a “His List” and “Her List” of these driving forces, listing them in order of their importance.
• Discuss the reasons behind every item on each list and ensure you are both happy and understand each others motivations.
• Discuss and agree any limitations you may want to apply to swinging. (e.g. Whether to limit it to same room sex with other couples but full intercourse with own partner only. )
• Discuss fully any concerns either partner has about friends and family discovering that they engage in the swinger lifestyle activities.

Taking the next step towards a swinger lifestyle
Leaving sensible intervals, go back over all the points you have discussed and agreed upon a few more times. Use this cooling off period to take your first steps towards the swinger lifestyle. Then start off by running searches for potential swinger play-mates. Next, begin making contact and arranging swinger dates with the some of the people you have identified. By this time you may have also found a swinger party that you want to attend. Ideally, though, it is best to meet or date with a few swingers privately before attending your first party